Our mind, the part of us that is conditioned to rationalize, minimize, make wrong, separate and not take responsibility is very crafty at hiding the peace we are longing for behind our self-righteous positions and good reasons. Self-forgiveness bypasses all of the mind’s rational reasons and sneaky diversions that rob us of that peace.

When I make self-forgiveness a practice I  take an inventory at the end of my day – or a few minutes during my morning shower to check in with myself and asked myself – Who or what am I judging? And then launch into forgiveness statements. Some times I don’t feel like it but always I experience a shift of some kind and I free up the energy that was locked into that subtle or not so subtle judgment. I can regenerate that reclaimed energy back into my day.

What I have discovered is that self-forgiveness is powerful – Personally powerful. The choice to forgive is ours but the ability to forgive taps us into Living Love, our Divinity or Divine Nature and even God.  The ability to forgive, in my experience, comes from a part of our multidimensional reality that responds to the vibration or frequency of opening our heart to our self or another. This powerful choice dissolves the knotty block that is caused by separating, blaming, or seeding revenge.

Now that’s quite a statement about self-forgiveness.

Here’s story from my life. Twenty years ago when I first moved to the southwest I went on a 10 days women’s backpacking trek. A part of the trek was to spend some time alone – in the wilderness -sometimes called a Vision Quest – in sacred time with yourself. The sacred time had several different focuses and one focus was to call forward all the people in your life that had hurt or wronged you and forgive them – at least that was the suggestion – and to ask forgiveness from those you felt you had hurt or wronged.

One of the people who came forward for me during this part of the vision quest was a girl friend who I no longer spoke with – we had had a falling about over her accusing me of something (I don’t remember what) and my refusal to apologize because I felt she was wrong. So – we had both ended the friendship with hurt feelings.

Well, on top of that mountain, during that sacred time, I saw her side – asked for her forgiveness, and forgave her.  And then I moved on to the next person in my ceremony.

I didn’t think any more about this until about a week after I arrived home I got a letter from her – and in the letter she said I had come to her in her dreams, asked her for forgiveness – and she was so blown away by my sincerity – she was writing to tell me and to ask for my forgiveness as well. At the time, I couldn’t imagine how my sacred time of forgiveness 1000  miles away could have created this dream for my friend. But at the time, I had not had much experience with forgiveness.

Since that time, I have witnessed similar occurrences take place with clients – as a client is forgiving a person from their past – perhaps a parent that was abusive or a perpetrator – the energy of that person suddenly shows up in the room, as if to receive the forgiveness– or workshop participants who report feeling a soft hand stroke their head as an acknowledgment of letting go of the hurt;   – or hearing inside the words, “I’m sorry” back – sometimes from beyond the grave, as they say.

And it’s not just in my work.  These occurrences are common place during a forgiveness process where the choice to let go, to release the wound, to sincerely set each other free – the power beyond what our humanity is capable of responds and there is no space or time that separates.

Rumi said: Your task is not to seek love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.

Is there something you want to forgive? Some burden, guilt, pain, memory that is eating away at you? Do you find yourself obsessing about this person what he/she said…what you wished you had said… Do you have fantasies about getting even, telling that person off, showing them…these are all common mind games to avoid shifting our focus from right/wrong to what needs healing or releasing and how do I do that?

I have witnessed lives destroyed from of the inner ‘hell’ that was created from holding on to grudges, self-righteous positions, beliefs about guilt, faults/blame and shame. I have also known people who have saved themselves from this ‘hell’ by having the courage to take the voyage of exploration into sometimes the heart of darkness which always leads us through to the other side into the greater experience of the spiritual heart.

When we allow our self to stop separating inside our self and from others and step into the connection and resonance that is our collective heart the power of release and setting our self free shows up – again and again and again.

It is alchemy in the purest form – where the baser feelings of resentment, anger, regret, guilt, revenge shame and blame mix with the unconditioned pure presence of loving and the result is no less than self renewal, and at heart reborn.

 Would you like to begin the practice of self-forgiveness? Bridge to Your Big Life is a 6 part audio course that walks you through the Six self-mastery tools. These tools teach our human nature how to shift into Living Love.  For more information http://makeitheaven.com/?page_id=1534&preview=true

Are you tired of holding yourself back and playing a small game?

Do you feel trapped by your past and sick of fear and constant worry?

Do you want to change the way you think about your life, your world and your Self?

My passion is assisting people like you to discover and live from that ‘on course’ inner navigational system of Divine Guidance.

Because our times are calling us ALL forward in BIG ways and asking us to shed eons of limiting beliefs and ancestral baggage, I have dedicated my energy and resources to teaching the tools that will create the new YOU with resilience and laugh out loud joy.

More Information about Rebecca

Where did I learn these ancient secrets?

From what was ‘hidden’ in plain sight!

My own experience surviving major life 2x4s, using them to wake up out of the pain of heart numbness and applying the new learnings to create an entirely different self and world view.

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Practice, study, practice, prayer, practice, contemplation, practice, letting go, practice…breakthrough…practice, study, practice ….you get the picture.

(it’s the best kept secret as you breathe in and out… take one grace-filled step at a time)

Some of the benefits my clients experience:

• Discover a natural ability to tap into a wellspring of flow, joy and life giving enthusiasm
• Shed old ‘story’, pain from the past and create a new vibrational ‘field’ that makes life sparkle
• Feel safe going for your heart’s desire while you trust your inner guidance
• Consistently dip into the magic of who you are and watch reality shift
• Live a life on fire!

Are my programs and services right for you? Great question.

Ask yourself:

Are you experiencing a challenging situation, otherwise known as a life 2×4 and realize you are being invited to ‘wakeup’ out of your old life?

Are you ready to do the deep work necessary to shift your beliefs at a core level so your identify shifts…and your reality shifts?

Do you have a tremendous capacity to serve and love and long to share your gifts with the world?

Do you want tools that work so you can navigate your new world from wholeness, resiliency and laugh out loud joy?

What do my clients say?

“You are a brilliant woman and we’re truly fortunate to have you” – J. Santa Fe

“I feel very blessed having you as my teacher. ” R. Taos

“You have taught me so much. I am eternally grate FULL and my life is forever changed.” B- Oklahoma City

Learning how to live as a multidimensional being is no longer a luxury for the casual seeker. Now, more than ever, thousands of heart and heaven focused people are being called to claim their divine birthright as a cocreator with God and live aligned with their highest calling.

It is challenging to maintain a compassionate and soulful perspective in the midst of uncertainty and upheaval. Inner and outer opportunities to preserve the old reference points of fear, againstness, duality, competition and small thinking are rampant.

And yet, you were born to shed the outdated ancestral conditioning and limited thinking that has kept you playing a small game. The opportunity is to live in your (w)Holiness and hold your humanity and the world’s humankind with compassion and perfect understanding…and then cocreate your highest calling from inspired action.

You were also designed to inherit your spiritual heritage – the promise that every soul, when ready, has everything within to express yourself and your life as a heaven on earth with purpose, clarity and resilient loving.

Heaven Mentoring

Are you wanting individualized personal mentoring to discover and manifest your personal heaven on earth?

Would you like to learn to clear what is blocking you from living the life you were born to live?

Individual Heaven Mentoring is a bi-weekly (10 call) 6 month mentoring program that is tailor-made for you at what ever point you are in your heaven making process. Beginning to get a glimpse? already waist deep in profound shifting? or wanting to dive in deep to access the unlimited being that you are. In partnership with your Divine Reality we will free your heart, remove the limits so you can see your self and your life with new eyes.

Group Heaven Mentoring is a year long 10 group call program that will consist of short teaching points and then short individual lazered mentoring for each participant. The Group Heaven Mentoring also comes with a private Facebook group site for on-going community support and connection.

Wisdom School Classes

Make It Heaven Wisdom School classes are designed to teach the ‘how to’ so you can immediately apply these practices to your everyday life – see and experience the shifts – and follow your unique inner guidance to a happier, healthier and abundant life.

How to Live as a Multidimensional Being and How to CoCreate Reality as a Multidimensional Being

Each class is 6 months in length and covers:

-Connecting to Divine Reality: You will learn your Spiritual Anatomy to enhance your connection to Divine Reality and awareness of subtle energies. You will experience an expanded heart center and greater inner trust with Self plus a knowing of yourself as a Divine Being.

-Releasing the Old Blueprint: You will practice tools that assist you to release and clear old ancestral conditioning, family patterning, limiting beliefs, and habitual reactive emotional and mental responses. You will experience your body as a divine vessel for ease, flow, grace and light.

-Divine Purpose: You will embody and make choices from your authentic self in alignment with your divine purpose which will include your essence, blessing, Heaven Intention and God’s Intention for you.

-New Blueprint: You will establish new reference points that will assist you in moving forward into your life as a multi-dimensional being. You will experience your Divinity replacing your ego/personality as the center of who you are. You will loosen the bounds of duality and regenerate your cells with Living Love.

-CoCreating a New Reality: You will learn and practice reality creation based on quantum principles aligned with your highest calling. You will design and implement a divine course to manifest your blessing and mission in the world.

How the Class will be delivered?

Make It Heaven Wisdom School classes are a combination of group phone classes, one on one counseling/coaching calls, and weekend intensives. The Summer class will take place over the months May – October. There will be two intensive 3 day weekends; five group classes; four individual counseling/coaching calls. Included in the class material will be two audio classes that will run during the 6 months.

How can I participate?

You can attend the classes that are offered through the Make It Heaven Wisdom School on the Student Track or on the Practitioner Track. All classes are available on the Student Track and can be taken multiple times and/or in multiple years. All classes, plus the professional practitioner training are a requirement to participate on the Practitioner Track and must be completed within a 36 month time period.

Enrollment in the classes are limited to 12 students. Each applicant is required to complete an application and will be considered on a first come basis. Email or Call Rebecca to receive a class schedule and an application.

Make It Heaven Wisdom School ~ Rebecca Skeele, Teacher and Facilitator ~ www.makeitheaven.com ~ 505 984-1739 ~ rskeele@gmail.com